
My Top 5 Lessons
1. Setting Boundaries is Important
I’ve learned that setting boundaries is essential, not only for preserving my time but also for my mental health. Consent is such an incredibly important thing, even in the tiniest things in life. Imagine a person that you would give anything to, wholeheartedly. Now imagine them anyway taking even the smaller thing from you without you asking? There is a huge difference which is again something related to boundaries. Throughout the year, I realised that I wasn’t always clear enough about my boundaries, which sometimes led to burnout. There were moments when I said yes to too many things, not wanting to disappoint others, but it left me feeling overwhelmed. As I started setting clearer limits—both in my professional and personal life – I found it easier to focus on what truly matters. For example, I used to feel obligated to reschedule meetings or commitments just to be polite, even when I was already swamped. Now, I’ve learned that it’s okay to say “no” when I’m not able to give my full attention to something. I’ve realised that by protecting my time, I’m actually doing everyone a favour – myself included.



2. If You Wouldn’t Schedule a Coffee Today, Don’t Push It for Next Week
This philosophy helped me realise how I manage my time and relationships. We often tend to overload ourselves with commitments, trying to please everyone around us. At one point, I found myself always saying yes to things I wasn’t genuinely excited about, simply to avoid letting others down. However, I’ve found that it’s much better to be honest with myself and my time. If I don’t have the energy for a coffee with someone today, there’s no reason to push it to next week. I’ve learned to respect myself and my boundaries, and in doing so, I’ve become more present and relaxed when I do meet with friends and family. It’s about quality over quantity, and I feel so much more at ease now.



3. Divide Huge Tasks into Small Steps to Start Sooner
Wedding planning, which was a massive challenge for me, taught me how to handle large projects. Having never organized a wedding before, I had no idea how much of a project it actually is. I often say that last year I worked on several major projects, and one of them was definitely the wedding. Big tasks can be daunting, especially when they seem so overwhelming, but I’ve learned that they’re much more manageable when broken down into smaller, achievable steps.
Instead of letting myself feel overwhelmed by the scale of the project, I realized that dividing it into smaller tasks makes everything much easier. This approach helped me not only start sooner but also reduce the stress that comes with large-scale projects. One of the best examples of this is my current project, which is the largest one I’ve ever worked on and is set to launch at the beginning of 2025. Breaking down the tasks into smaller parts has allowed me to stay focused and productive, even when the pressure is on. It’s surprising how much more manageable something feels when you give yourself smaller steps to complete along the way.



4. There’s a Huge Difference Between Thinking and Overthinking
I’ve always been someone who likes to think things through, but this past year, I’ve realised just how important it is to recognise when thinking turns into overthinking. Generally, I’m someone who makes decisions quickly – I’m confident in saying yes or no and always trust my instincts. However, there are times when I unconsciously fall into overthinking certain things without even realising it.
I used to get caught in a cycle of endless analysis, playing out every possible scenario in my head. While thinking things through can be helpful, excessive analysis can be paralysing and draining, and there have been times when I found myself wasting precious time on scenarios that may never come to fruition. I’ve learned to recognise when overthinking starts to creep in, and I now consciously make decisions quickly, trusting my initial instinct rather than letting fear of making a mistake become a barrier. I’m now much quicker to move forward, even if there’s still uncertainty.



5. Growth Comes Through Discomfort
The biggest lesson I’ve learned this year is that true growth comes from stepping out of your comfort zone. As I always say, I think it’s a great exercise to step out of the familiar and try something new – you might even learn more about yourself and gain a bit of confidence along the way. For instance, if you’ve never gone to a restaurant alone for lunch or dinner, give it a try and let me know how it feels. It’s a simple but powerful way to push yourself beyond your comfort zone and experience something new that can help you grow in so many ways.
This is something I truly experienced while filming my TV show for Blic TV. While it was exciting and full of new experiences, there was also a lot of the unknown. Entering this new world, with all its challenges and uncertainties, showed me that real change happens when we face fear and discomfort. Although it was uncomfortable at first, I realised it was exactly what I needed to continue growing. Taking that leap into something unfamiliar was both terrifying and exhilarating, but ultimately, it’s been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life.



2024 has been a year of introspection, self-understanding, and new beginnings. Through all the challenges—whether in professional projects, new experiences, or personal relationships—I’ve learned how to set boundaries, recognise the difference between thinking and overthinking, and embrace discomfort as part of my personal growth journey. One thing is certain: none of this would have been possible if I hadn’t been willing to step outside my comfort zone and learn from each experience.
I’ve come to realise that growth is never easy, but it’s always worth it.
