How to Deal with Hate Online

Screen Shot 2015-11-02 at 14.56.19

Few days ago I read really interesting and insightful post by one of my dear friends Victoria, who went into a lot of detail about the topic you can see in the title. I must admit, not only it got me thinking, but I also really wanted to write a similar post and address this really important issue in our industry. Not because I think that Victoria didnt cover it all, but because I think that now is a perfect moment.

I myself feel so lucky, as comparing to some of my friends I don’t receive a lot of hate at all. It comes in waves, and very very often from one same IP Address. Sometimes weeks pass without a single negative remark, and by negative I don’t mean constructive criticism, I mean trolling. But then there are the days when people who like to hide anonymously behind their computer screen leave many comments in short space of time, and this is what I would like to discuss today with you.

Let me take you to few years back when I used to find it hard even dealing with criticism. I used to tear up when my dad would tell me how I didnt do something well, or when my mum would tell my my hair isn’t having its best day. I guess there is also a way to say stuff, and parents (at least mine for sure), never have a perfect or kind way of suggesting you did something wrong, but love toughening you up, with these certainly special criticising skills. Boy have I changed! It feels like in only few years I am million times stronger, more realistic person who LOVES good criticism. Thanks to haters I also learned to differentiate what is criticism and what is pure envy, hate, or drama string.

In 21st century there are few different kinds of hate. The hate that is directed to your looks, like “you are too fat” or “Your eyes are too big”, to the personal ones like “You are a bad person” or “You are so selfish or egoistical”. I am not sure which one is emptier, people who NEVER met me in their life, and claim to know what kind of person I am, even though they never exchanged a sentence with me, or people who feel like its ok to offend other women based on their look, rather than empowering each other and being there to support one another?

In the world of Kardashians, not only it became so ok to discuss other peoples lives, choices and look, but it also became socially acceptable to judge them and give opinions about how wrong they were to do something- even if we don’t even know they actually did it. People also think its ok for them to judge other peoples actions, even thought they never found themselves in even a similar situation.

On my blog, you will NEVER see drama. While blogging, for last 6 years, I went through a lot, from existential crisis, to having a big hart break that took very long to heal. Not once I spoke about any of those issues. My blog is not a reality drama, if you are looking for that, you might want to find another blog to follow.

My blog is a place in which I want to share Fashion, Beauty and Self-Development tips. Its a platform on which every piece of information I put should help you get motivation to become better. Unless they have something useful to say, why would people want to spread negativity? It only stays with them and after commenting doesn’t make them feel better, I am sure.

So why would people focus on negative stuff and try to stir up drama, or ask personal questions and give their judgements if they know I will never talk about things like that? You tell me. I remember I discovered few months ago how crazy peoples imagination is when someone asked me why won’t I show my boyfriend on the blog? Is it because he has another girlfriend on the side? Wow!

My best tip to you on dealing with hate is knowing firmly who you are. People can never pleased, and a bit of hype can only help your popularity. Do not try and fight the rumours, do not try to justify yourself, you are just adding fuel to the fire. Smile, be happy, be generous and forgive. Forgive to people who spread rumours, and forgive to haters, they truly love you a little bit to much. But to you, my lovely readers I can just suggest to never let anyone’s negativity get to you. You build your own happiness and you should never believe everything you hear on internet. Specially from people who just love creating hype and drama. Wishing you a lovely Monday and a beautiful week full of positivity!

————————————————————————————————–

Pre nekoliko dana procitala sam fenomenalan post koji je moja drugarica Victoria napisala na svom blogu, pricala je o temi koju vidite u naslovu. Moram priznati da je u meni pokrenula lavinu misli, ali me takodje navela da napisem slican post i obratim vam se o ovom delu nase industrije. Ne zato sto mislim da Victoria nije sve rekla, vec zato sto mislim da je sada idealan trenutak da to ucinim.

Smatram se jako srecnom jer u poredjenju na moje prijatelje ne dobijam mnogo mrznje na blogu i drustvenim mrezama. Dodje to u talasima, veoma cesto sa iste IP adrese. Ponekad nedelje prodju bez negativnih opaski, a kad kazem negativnih, ne mislim na konstruktivne kritike vec na takozvane internet trolove. Dodju tako dani kada ljudi koji se kriju iza anonimnosti svojih kompjuterskih ekrana osete potrebu da ostave gomilu komentara u malom vremenskom periodu i o tome cu vam reci nesto vise danas.

U 21. veku postoji nekoliko razlicitih vrsta online mrznje. Ruzni komentari upuceni vasem izgledu, poput “Predebela si” ili “Oci su ti prevelike”, pa do onih licnih kao sto su “Ti si losa osoba” i “Jako si sebicna i egoisticna”. Nisam sigurna koji od ovih komentara ima praznije znacenje,kada vam neko ko vas ne poznaje i ko u zivotu nije progovorio rec sa vama komentarise licne osobine ili kada zene vredjaju izgled drugih zena, umesto da jedna drugu podrzavaju i obogacuju lepim recima?

U svetu Kardašjiana ne samo da je postalo ok razgovarati o tudjim zivotima, izborima i izgledu, ali je postalo i drustveno prihvatljivo davati misljenja na temu koliko su pogresili u ovoj ili onoj odluci, osudjivati njihove akcije, cak i ako nemamo pojma o zivotu tih ljudi i ako nikada nismo bili u slicnoj situaciji. Gadjati nekoga kamenom, iako smo i sami gresni nas vraca u…pa znate i sami Biblijsko doba.

Na mom blogu NIKADA necete videti dramu. Za vreme poslednjih 6 godina i od kako sam otvorila blog, prosla sam kroz mnoge poteskoce, od onih egzistecijalnih do slomljenog srca kome je trebalo mnogo vremena da zaceli. Ipak, nikada vam nisam spominjala te situacije. Moj blog nije reality program, nije drama, ako to trazite, morate naci drugi, neki koji o tome pise.

Moj blog je mesto na kom zelim da pisem o modi, lepoti, samonapretku. To je platforma na kojoj svaka informacija koju plasiram treba da vas inspirise i motivise da radite na sebi. Osim ako imaju nesto pametno za reci, zasto ljudi zele da sire negativnost? Ove vibracije samo ostaju sa njima i svakako im ne olaksavaju situaciju, cak i nakon izrecene mrznje.

Dakle, zasto se neki ljudi fokusiraju toliko na tudje zivote, na zakuvavanje drame, zasto ljudi imaju vremena da osudjuju ostale kao da su oni savrseni? Na to nikada necu imati odgovor. Secam se da sam i sama otkrila beskonacnost ljudske maste kada mi je neko napisao da je ubedjen da ja ne pokazujem svog momka na blogu zato sto on sigurno ima jos jednu devojku! Wow!

Moj najbolji savet za vas, ukoliko se i sami borite sa negativnoscu, je da silno verujete u sebe i poznajete realno svoje osobine. Ljude nikada necete zadovoljiti, a graja nece naskoditi vasoj popularnosti. Ne trudite se da poricete traceve, ne opravdavajte se iako znate da niste krivi, to je samo dodavanje ulja na vatru. Nasmejte se, budite srecni, velikodusni i oprostite. Oprostite ljudima koji sire traceve, oprostite hejterima i verujte mi da oni pricaju o vama jer vas vole malo vise nego sto i sami mogu da podnesu. Ali vama, mojim divnim citateljima zelim da ne dopustite da negativnost dodje do vas. Sami gradimo svoju srecu i ne treba da verujete svemu sto cujete na internetu. Pogotovo ne stvari koje cujete od ljudi koji vole da zakuvavaju i na taj nacin podizu svoju popularnost, oprostite im, jer ponekad je za njih to upravo jedini nacin da postignu bilo kakvu online popularnost. Zelim vam divan ponedeljak i prelepu nedelju punu pozitivnosti.

Share:

50 Comments

  1. Glam&Glitter Lover
    Nov 2, 2015 / 12:37 pm

    Tacno tako. Volim sto nisi stavila ovu temu po strani kao mnogi jutjuberi koji kazu “Ma samo iskuliraj”, neko si joj posvetila citav post. Volim sto pises o temama koje svi nazivaju “tabu”. Ly<3

  2. Nov 2, 2015 / 12:40 pm

    I too read Victoria’s post, it was brilliant & so well written! It’s such a shame you guys even have to write posts about topics like this, but unfortunately the rise of social media has provided a shield for the haters to hide behind anonymously.
    Hugs Adele xoxo

  3. Anna
    Nov 2, 2015 / 1:02 pm

    Oh dear, you are just perfect the way you are and you shouldn’t change a single thing about you. It’s obviously a good thing to improve yourself. But I want you to know that people will never be satisfied or 100% happy to see you getting better. Do it for yourself and make the most out of it.

  4. anna
    Nov 2, 2015 / 1:04 pm

    Mozda se I varam ali cini mi se da u tvom slucaju negativne komentare uglavnom dobijas od devojaka sa nasih prostora. Ne citam sve komentare a ni uvek Ali kada god sam procitala neki negativan bio je od strane domaceg citaoca. Mislim da su ljudi ovde mnogo frustrirani zbog lose ekonomske a I politicke situacije I da zbog toga bas I ne prastaju tudj uspeh. Po mom misljenju vrlo je banalno pratiti rad osoba koje te ne privlace cije stavove ne delis I nemas sta od njih da naucis vec to radis samo da bi vredjao. Sopstvrne frustracije najbolje resavamo kada Ih priznamo I suocim se sa njima. Vredjanje tudjeg uspeha iza nika ili anonimno, sto nam dodje isto, nikome nije donelo uspeh niti resilo probleme. Pozdrav Tamara super post.

  5. Nov 2, 2015 / 1:08 pm

    Well said,very well said!
    I also read your friends article and I think both of you are doing a great job in dealing with this topic.
    It’s sad how nowadays everybody thinks that, just because it’s the internet, they’re allowed to be rude and bash on someone.
    I’ve had my blog for more than three years and never received a negative comment. It was only when I made it public in the small country I live in, that people started to write mean stuff like ,,omg look at your stupid face” I mean seriously? ;)
    If you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all(except if it’s constructive)

    http://fashionbarbecue.com/

  6. sunshine
    Nov 2, 2015 / 1:57 pm

    Divan post! Volim tvoj blog i nacin na koji se bavis poslom koji volis. Cestitam na svim uspjesima i zelim ti ih jos mnogo kako u privatnom, tako i poslovnom segmentu zivota. Fotografije, tekstovi i proizvodi koje nam preporucujes su na vrhunskom nivou. Raduje me cinjenica da je djevojka sa Balkana postigla svjetski uspjeh i nikakvog razloga nema da obracas paznju na neprimjerene i zlonamjerne komentare. Zelim ti svu srecu ovog svijeta!

  7. Marija
    Nov 2, 2015 / 2:15 pm

    Tudji zivoti,izbori itd.-tema onih koji ne stignu daleko u zivotu,onih koji robuju predrasudama,onih koji ne podnose tudji uspjeh i srecu.I to nije zastupljeno samo na drustvenim mrezama vec i van tog svijeta.
    Jedno je sigurno- za njih nikada duhovnog mira.

  8. Nov 2, 2015 / 3:24 pm

    it’s so sad that people have to hate online. Especially when everyone is just having a good time. I always say to not take anything personally, and sometimes it’s hard but what they say has nothing to do with you but with them.

    http://hashtagliz.com

  9. tasa
    Nov 2, 2015 / 3:35 pm

    Mislim da su ovde cinjenice jace od bilo kakvih optuzbi i prozivki. A cinjenica kaze da si u doticnom trenutku otisla na Ibicu. Opravdanje ne moze da postoji, ne ako si dobra osoba u svakom slucaju. Ja ovde zavrsavam sa citanjem tvog bloga, iako znam da to tebi ne menja nista, stvar je principa. Ne vidim svrhu citanja saveta osobe koja ima vrlo pogresno poredjane prioritete. Posao je samo posao i novac je samo novac, volim da mislim da smo mi ljudi bolji od toga, da mozemo vise. Srdacan pozdrav.

    • Ivona
      Nov 2, 2015 / 4:30 pm

      Ajde trolu sto hejtujes. Procitaj tekst. Da li mislis da si bezgresna? Da li ti znas tacne cinjenice? Mozda laze Tamara, mozda laze Zorana mozda laze Kim Kardasijan? Jel ti nije pali na pamet? Otvori okice i ne daj sebi za pravo da sudos drugima ako ih ne poznajes. Ti Tami, samo napred, najbolja si!

      • Goca
        Nov 2, 2015 / 7:21 pm

        U potpunosti sam saglasna sa Tasom. Ima nas ljudi, koji smo takodje ispunjeni, ostvareni i uspjesni, koji imamo iskustva i dara da pisemo, dajemo savjete, ali to ne radimo, jer imamo druga interesovanja, ali isto tako imamo svoje misljenje i pravo da ga iskazemo javno, ako je u pitanju situacija o kojoj se govori javno, a da pritom to isto misljenje ne bude okarakterisano kao hejt. Mislim da je to ruzna generalizacija. Definitivno. Draga Ivona, niko nije bezgresan, ali postoje situacije koje nemaju opravdanje. Takodje, mozda ne znamo tacne cinjenice, ali ih ne znas ni ti, pa kao sto mi ne mozemo reci da je najgora, ne mozes ni ti reci da je najbolja. Ako na taj nacin sagledavas stvari! Taso, ponavljam, u potpunosti sam saglasna sa tobom. Uci cu na blog da pogledam outfit iz ciste zanimacije, ali da imam drugo misljenje – imam, ali iskreno sumnjam da to Tamaru mnogo zanima… ionako, ispada da sve sto nisu pohvale, to je hejt… A TO JE TAKO POGRESNO. POSTOJI JEDNOSTAVNA POJAVA ZVANA – MISLJENJE. STAV. I NEMA VEZE SA HEJTOM. ALI POJEDINCIMA JE NAJLAKSE SVE STO NIJE POHVALA NAZVATI HEJTOM. I ne smatram da samo cure sa nasih prostora imaju lose komentare – jer su sa tih prostora. Smatram da ih jedine iznesu, poznavajuci neke stvari bolje od inostranih pratilaca – neke stvari iz privatnog zivota o kojima se govori i zbog toga sto je mentalitet drugaciji. A ne zbog pakosti i ljubomore. Cemu predrasude. Pozdrav za sve!

        • Ana
          Nov 2, 2015 / 8:38 pm

          Draga Goco, privukao mi je paznju tvoj komentar. Trudim se da me profesionalna deformacija ne drzi i da ti kao profesor naseg jezika ne kazem da si napravila gresku. Gresku u citanju. Tamara je napisala da nije samo pohvala dobro dosla, vec i konstruktivna kritika. Mislim da kada su privatni zivoti u pitanju, pogotovo privatni zivoti drugih ljudi konstruktivnu kritiku ne mozemo dati ni ti, ni ja, pa tako ni neki drugi citatelj. Verovatno cu ja ispasti hejter-tebe, ali ja sam samo neko kome je jako stalo da se predrasude poniste te da se ljudima prestanu kaciti “neoprostivi” gresi, pogotovo sto zaista NISTA nije neoprostivo, ni u braku, ni u porodici pa tako ni u necemu banalnom poput online prijateljstva. Pozdrav.

          • anna
            Nov 3, 2015 / 10:10 am

            Draga Goco niko ne kaze da su svi sa nasih prostora hejteri ali ako pogledas na primer Tamarin srpski yt kanal videces koliko ima uvredljivih i neosnovanih optuzbi vredjanja i svega sto je daleko od konstruktivne kritike. Jedno je reci ne svidja mi se kako ti stoji dzemper,siri te u struku ili lepsa si mi kad vezes kosu a sasvim drugo optuzbe i uvrede koje su joj ostavljali pojedini anonimusi.I cisto sumnjam da Tamara ubraja pod hejtom gde neko prokomentarise outfit da mu se ne svidja, vec vredjanje njenog fizickog izgleda i mentalnog karaktera(koji uzgred niko od nas ne poznaje).A sto se tice ovog odnosa sa njenom besti ili sta su vec ne razumem sto ljudi pridaju znacaja toliko.Kakve veze ima kakav je Tamara prijatelj,ne posecujemo blog zbog njihovog prijateljstva nego da vidimo krpe i procitamo neki savet za sminkanje. Kao da su svi pevaci ,glumci,novinari ,ciji god rad pratite dobri ljudi. Nama koji pratimo njihov rad treba da je bitno da posao rade dobro,jer ih zbog tog posla i pratimo.Tamara unapredjuje svoj blog svakodnevno i dobra je u svom poslu njen privatni zivot ne treba da nas zanima. Al dobro svako naravno ima prava na svoje misljenje.

    • Anonymous
      Nov 2, 2015 / 7:35 pm

      Bravoooooo

    • Ana
      Nov 3, 2015 / 9:05 pm

      Mislim da se nikog, ponavljam n i k o g ne tiče Tamarin privatni život ( uzgred ni moj ni tvoj, ma ničiji). Iskreno , mene njen privatni život niti osobne stvari ne zanimaju. Niti bih čitala o tome. Niti bih gledala video, ne hvala. Osoba koju spominju neke očito vrlo agresivne klinke u kontekstu prozivanja Tamare i gdje je ona bila, na Ibizi ili na Marsu u nekom određenom trenutku, uporno svoj privatni život gura pod nos svima koji se zateknu na nekom od njenih kanala, a pritom tvrdi da “čuva svoju privatnost”. Nezrela glupost i loša laž! S kim se Tamara ili bilo tko druži je isključivo privatna stvar i osoba koja drži do sebe od toga nikada neće stvarati ni temu ni dramu, jer to je neukusno, vulgarno i prelazi granice pristojnosti i civiliziranog ponašanja. Isto kao i osuđivanje i prosuđivanje drugih ljudi ( u ovom slučaju Tamare) uz komentare što je ona u datom trenu trebala i morala učiniti.
      I za kraj samo još jedna misao: sve ima rok trajanja, pa tako i prijateljstva, ljudi se razilaze i to je normalno. Ali razumijem da to nije jasno djevojčicama koje imaju 11 ili 13 godina jer im je i sam koncept života stran, a kamoli sve što se u istom tom životu događa.
      Pitanje: nije li dosta rastezanja te glupe rasprave, nije li vrijeme da to prestane biti tema?

  10. Nov 2, 2015 / 4:15 pm

    Very well written! I always wonder why some people would want to spread negativity. There are so many awful things in the world already, why would one not just want to spread love and try to brighten someone’s day instead. This is a great post :)
    ~Lili
    http://www.thefashionsalt.com

  11. Nov 2, 2015 / 5:34 pm

    Obožavam ovaj post, baš mi je drago što si pisala na ovu temu, i da jedino što nam može pomoći da uspijemo jeste samo vjera u same sebe xoxox

    thefurthestthingfromperfect.blogspot.com

  12. Mary
    Nov 2, 2015 / 6:21 pm

    Odlicno receno, ne treba ni da se obaziras na te negativce, najgore im je kad ih ignorises ;) Puno srece u daljem radu, veoma si vredna i lepa devojka. Oni koji pisu negativne komentare samo govore o sebi i koliko su zavidni.
    Neki prave dramu i rijaliti od svog zivota radi kojeg pregleda vise, a i navikli da se sve vrti oko njih i veoma su razmazeni pa nikako da shvate da ti imas i svoj zivot i svoje obaveze

  13. Nov 2, 2015 / 6:37 pm

    Much needed today! Thanks!
    Chichistashan.blogspot.in

  14. Nov 3, 2015 / 1:38 am

    Great post and a very important topic. Thanks for sharing !!! :)

  15. Nov 3, 2015 / 6:23 am

    Great article, with lot’s of inspiration…

  16. Nov 3, 2015 / 7:24 am

    Some people just cannot stand others having success and happiness, that´s why they react in a way like that… It´s sad, but unfortunately the only way some people can deal with their lives :(

    But I´d deal with them the same that you do, Tamara, really a great post!

    xoxo
    Ina Nuvo

  17. Nov 3, 2015 / 8:04 am

    What a great post Tamara! I totally agree about being sure about yourself. :) You are a beautiful person, inside and out.

    Rachel x
    thehappybits.blogspot.com

  18. Aurora
    Nov 3, 2015 / 10:04 am

    Slažem se s većinom napisanog.
    Osim sa tezom da na ovakvim lifestyle blogovima nema mjesta negativizmu. Dakle, socijalne mreže stvaraju sliku nekakvog savršenog života, koji apsolutno nema veze sa zdravim razumom. Ja se osobno puno više poistovjećujem sa blogericama koje bez zadrške ponekad pokažu da imaju loš dan, tjedan, mjesec. Jer to jest stvarni život. Ne bih to nazvala ni negativizmom ni dramom, nego realnošću.
    Svugdje oko sebe na socijalnim mrežama vidim te isprazne osmijehe, koji su nerealni i s kojima se nikad ne mogu poistovjetiti, a samim time niti vjerovati napisanom. Pa čak i onda kad je iskreno.

    Razumijem da ne želiš komercijalizirati svoj privatni život, nikad si to bih dozvolila, pa tako shvaćam i druge. Ali realnost i pokazivanje da svatko ima svojih down dana i da svatko griješi, samo posvjetljuje one dane koji su istinski ispunjeni srećom i zadovoljstvom.
    Budimo iskreni, jer su jedino takvi ljudi vrijedni poštovanja. Barem onima koji imaju zrno kritičkog mišljenja u glavicama :)
    Lijep pozdrav, nastavi sa super radom :D

  19. Nov 3, 2015 / 3:49 pm

    Nice post! I i totally agree with your opinion!
    Prijatno! ;)

    Love from Vienna
    Borislava von

  20. Nov 3, 2015 / 4:25 pm

    I’m completely agree with you and you’re a beautiful person!

    My last post:

  21. Nov 4, 2015 / 1:51 am

    Sending you all the positive vibes I can :) Happy Monday have a fabulous week!!
    xo, Jessica ||

  22. Nov 4, 2015 / 3:20 am

    This is such a good post!

    I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with negative comments, but it’s so good you are able to take something positive from it, and that you don’t let it get to you! :)

    Criticism is never easy to take, but I do make an effort to welcome constructive criticism – it helps you improve, and like you said it’s useful. Hateful or mean comments don’t help anyone, and the world is better off without such comments! :) I like to keep my blog a happy place too, no matter what is going on.

  23. Nov 4, 2015 / 5:51 am

    I can completely relate to this post! A few months ago I posted a picture on Google+. I don’t remember what the picture was anymore but I did get a rude comment. In all of my posts on any account whenever I get a comment I reply back and if the comment is nice I like them. This guy asked me why I didn’t see his previous comments and asked whether it was because I was too lazy to reply to them. That was the only comment that I could see that he posted. There weren’t any other ones. Confused and angry I replied saying that there weren’t any other comments aside from the rude one. He apologized.
    The best thing to do is simply answer them. And as you said to not start a fight or be rude. Ignoring them would probably start a fight as the commenter can claim that you are a coward and make random assumptions about you. Wonderful post! Thank you for sharing :)

  24. Nov 4, 2015 / 10:50 am

    Yes I had to deal with online hatred too. The best thing one can do is completely ignore them. Love your tips Tamara :D

    xx

  25. Nov 4, 2015 / 11:03 am

    Oh gosh your post is exactly about what I think! I did meet you briefly at The Apartment in LFW and you were so lovely and you are gorgeous, I’m so happy to read you’re also confident and don’t let anyone put you down! I, too, never share pics with my bf’s, ‘coz like you say, one thing is blogging and social media and something else is your private life! I love your post injected with positivism, feminine empowerment, and love! Keep it rockin’ girl! x

    Love,
    Whit

    http://www.whitneyswonderland.com

  26. Nov 4, 2015 / 1:41 pm

    You make such strong points and couldn’t agree more! Believing in yourself and being above the hate is the best approach! Love this post!

    http://www.rdsobsessions.com

  27. Eva
    Nov 4, 2015 / 5:05 pm

    Totally agree with what you’ve said! I think it’s a very informative and useful post, thanks for sharing it with us!

    Eva

  28. Nov 4, 2015 / 8:15 pm

    So good you’re writing about this topic. I haven’t got a lot of haters (yet) and most of the time I ignore them.

    xxx Linsey from

    You can also check my & if you like! :)

  29. Allegra
    Nov 4, 2015 / 9:27 pm

    Ljudi valjda ne razumiju način na koji ti odrađuješ ovaj posao. Neke blogerice uključuju svoje dečke u slike i postove, neke ne. A nikoga vani to ne brine nego ljude sa naših prostora, koji su uglavnom zavidni, ljuti i vole podbadat da bi se ”osjećali” bolje – jer nam je takav mentalitet jel? Kod stranaca uglavnom vidim da ako im se ne sviđa, komentiraju normalno ili uopće ne komentiraju. Zašto se živcirat?
    Ja sam se isto odselila van i kad samo vidim tak neke glupe komentare na tvom blogu ili vidim/čujem neke slične gluposti od naših na internetu,začudim se na koji način razmišljaju i zašto baš moraju ostavit svoj trag. A zamisli kad bi svako ko se odselio iz Srbije, sredio život i imao blog kao ti (a sigurno ih ima). Dobar post, zanimljivi komentari.

  30. Nov 5, 2015 / 6:05 am

    it’s unfortunate that some people feel the need to spread hate when they can spend their time spreading love and uplifting their wonderful peers. i cannot imagine why you would get any hate but there are some weirdos out there for sure. thanks for this encouraging post! you are amazing!!!

    love, liz

  31. anaa
    Nov 6, 2015 / 4:10 pm

    Bravo. Super si. Svaka cast i samo tako nastavi!!

  32. Rachel M
    Nov 11, 2015 / 10:05 pm

    I would love to read a little bit more about your personal life, but then I’m a nosy sod like that! But I think you keep things at a very professional level and that probably stops a lot of the haters. You do a fantastic job Tamara, keep up the great work and I’ll keep up the handbag jealousy cause man you have some fabulous handbags!

  33. Nov 18, 2015 / 12:30 am

    Some individuals are just born to hate. You just have to be positive and stay focus. Love your blog.

    Regards,
    Lily |

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

×

Never miss a post!

Sign up for the latest outfits and content direct to your inbox:

Your information is private.

Unsubscribe any time.